tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5955954018540213523.post965961747096756592..comments2024-01-28T11:44:45.563-07:00Comments on Andrea Pearson Books: Can Guys and Girls Just Be Friends?Andreahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05490759375036511747noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5955954018540213523.post-55897461077096452992011-12-12T19:17:11.114-07:002011-12-12T19:17:11.114-07:00I absolutely think men and woman can be friends. I...I absolutely think men and woman can be friends. I can think of several situations that can prove this in my own life. I liked my first girlfriend obviously but then she dumped me and I eventually moved on. We're still friends fifteen years later with no lingering feelings.<br />My bestfriend's wife and I hang out at times and neither of us are attracted to each other. My wife has female friends that I'm close with with no attraction.<br />The video, I feel, is slanted a bit in that they interview attractive college aged people who will obviously attract others. Get a group of people who aren't as attractive or who have moved beyond "the hunt" and you'll find people who will have no problem just being friends.<br />And a secondary thought I have... why can't you be interested in a member of the opposite sex and still be just friends? You're not friends if you're attracted to them? I can't say I agree with that. There's been plenty of people that I have been attracted to but didn't want to be anything other than just friends.Bradford A. Combshttp://bradfordacombs.blog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5955954018540213523.post-74107195940924880812011-12-12T18:21:16.235-07:002011-12-12T18:21:16.235-07:00Men and women can be just friends. I have had seve...Men and women can be just friends. I have had several guy friends before and after marriage were there was no other interest than just friendship.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5955954018540213523.post-82272241062007815452011-12-12T13:49:19.872-07:002011-12-12T13:49:19.872-07:00I am so with you. I don't think it works. It j...I am so with you. I don't think it works. It just doesn't to just be friends. I've tried and failed more than once (pre-marriage). Now I don't try. I can be friendly and nice, but close friendship? Reserved for my hubs. :)Janet Johnsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12688012956157161889noreply@blogger.com